images 150x150 Your Brain: The Ultimate Do It Yourself ProjectI had an appointment for an assessment with a speech therapist last week.  While I participated in speech therapy initially after my brain injury for three months and it did help, I’ve not been a big fan of traditional, western medicine because I’ve not found it to be all that successful in my recovery from a serious brain injury.  Recently, I’ve started to blend it back into the mix because I have been legally required to do so.

After seeing a neurologist, a rehabilitation specialist and a speech therapist, I’m developing a new-found respect for these professionals.  Who knew?   While I’m finding they don’t have all the answers, they do have valuable information that can lead me to my own discoveries.

My rehabilitation  has resembled a jigsaw puzzle with pieces showing up in all different places.  It’s up to me to be open to the information from whatever source , research and assimilate it, determine the value of and potential benefit to me and act accordingly.

While the speech therapist didn’t advise regular therapy because he didn’t think that would help me, he did share practices that I can perform on my own and gave me valuable pieces of the puzzle for me to fit into place for myself.

Your brain’s health, overall health, and life are a similar  do it yourself project and puzzle.  In a webcast, Daniel J. Siegel, a professor of psychiatry at UCLA school of Medicine, co-director of the UCLA Mindfulness Awareness Research Center, executive director of the Mindsight Institute and author of several books, defines the mind as the process that regulates our body’s flow of energy and information describing the physical brain, the mind, and our relationship or interaction with our world as forming a triangle that comprises the unique individual that we are.  According to Siegal, the mind uses the brain to create itself.  Hmmm. Think about that one for a minute.

Your interactions in the world and relationships with people and things actually determine the firing of neurons in your brain hence shaping your synaptic connections.  In keeping with Hebb’s Law, neurons that fire together wire together. Herein is your amazing power to change your brain and life.   In a process known as neuroplasticity, your actions, behavior, and thoughts, even imagination, sculpt your brain and, in turn, reality because your brain controls all that you think and do.   Unlike x-ray vision, this super power, neuroplasticity, is unquestionably proven by science and possessed by all from birth until death. The challenge is to learn to put the magic to good use, finish the do it yourself project and not set it up on the shelf for some later date.

Siegel calls the most basic process of changing your brain mindfulness training which has been around for thousands of years in the form of yoga, tai chi, qi gong, meditation and the many other similar activities.  Being mindful is a way of focusing and integrating energy flow to actually strengthen the prefrontal area of the brain.  This, in turn, creates what he calls an approach state where a person is adaptable, open, and motivated.  Mindfulness also has been proven to strengthen the immune system, improve blood pressure, and increase empathy.

Even doing simple mindfulness techniques such as focusing on the breath for 10 minutes a day can make physical changes in your brain.  This practice creates awareness, and with repetition, over time, this state becomes a trait.  Research has shown such practices to reduce playground bullying in children and raise grades.  Because you can’t tell an 8-year-old to meditate, they teach children the technique by putting a stuffed animal on their belly and telling them “to rock” the animal by breathing deeply.

What does this have to do with my speech therapy?  We are our own ultimate do-it-yourself projects. All too often, we look to the doctors or other experts to give us the answers or a super pill or quick fix when we possess the ability to change ourselves, our health, and our world.  Each person just has to start using their super power, their ability to transform their brain and life, for the better.

I decided to read out loud everyday as my own speech therapy.  Starting last night, I made myself laugh out loud at some of my horribly mangled pronunciations, but I know that, over time, I’ll see improvement.  The important thing to me is that I am actually doing something which I find so empowering.  You, too, have the same power to change it, whatever your “it” may be.

9781878424310 p0 v4 s600 206x300 Living The DreamIn his book, The Four AgreementsDon Miguel Ruiz proposes that life is nothing but a dream of the awake mind within a material framework.  Thus, humans are dreaming all the time, and dreaming is the main function of the mind.  Reality is a collective dream created by generations before us and those on Earth now.  ”The dream of a planet includes all of society’s rules, its beliefs, its laws, its religions, its different cultures and ways to be, its governments, schools, social events, and holidays,” according to Ruiz.

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asotis OUR BELIEFS… WHAT IS THEIR TRUE WORTH?I went down to the kitchen this late afternoon and there I met one of my housemates. Whenever we both meet, we tend to exchange some interesting topics, opinions, and, believe me, that does not happen often even though we do live in the same house.

We got talking and at one point our conversation reached the point where she (my housemate) began telling me how badly she was affected by her parents’ divorce when she was in her late teens (now she is in her late twenties). (more…)

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What fears, what thirsting for approval, what hunger for recognition hold me in the grooves of conditioning? I free myself of that and I am a unique expression of the Infinite. Can I feel the call to show myself freely? We are ready to acknowledge ourselves and to be self-evident… All pressure to renege on myself is now unbearable!

Just yesterday I was looking at all the New Age views about ‘something great’ about to come around the corner etc. and I was reflecting on how that continues to program everyone onto ‘hope’, ‘faith’ and the identity that is built around ‘becoming a multi-dimensional being’ etc. This focus on something yet to come and on some event yet to happen in order for my destiny to fulfill itself has the tendency to keep us from realizing just how amazing that <being> which is already here, which I already AM, actually is. That is where the exploration of this mystery begins, in my opinion.
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Non-thinking is a concept that comes up in a lot of spiritual sects, and is a core of meditation. But a lot of people find this concept difficult to grasp. And that, I feel, is due to a common misconception. People tend to consider non-thinking and not thinking to be the same thing. But as we are all well aware, not thinking at all is impossible. This leads newbie meditation practitioners to hours of frustration sitting on the floor thinking “Why can’t I stop thinking?!”. (more…)

solitude by blackgerm d2zi8bi SolitudeAs a follow on from my previous post this week about Loneliness I decided I would write one about the importance and necessity of Solitude. This is a concept I hold very close to my heart and have a lot of admiration for anyone who recognises the beauty of solitude. From this state is born a greater understanding of the self and the world in which we live, through introspection and observation. (more…)

Darkness Falls II by day light LonelinessSolitude is a topic I discuss a lot both in conversation and through blog posts, but I have yet to speak much about it’s anthiesis: Loneliness. First I’ll give you a quick summary of my definition of the two and why they’re different. Solitude is a state of being where one is comfortable with being alone. I feel it’s a requirement for everyone to immerse themselves in solitude from time to time, some more so than others. Whereas loneliness is where you long for company or companionship and are unable to attain it. The latter can be felt whether you are alone or even in a crowded room, it is a mentality that can take hold of and consume us, are we not careful. (more…)

Mistakes Learning from Mistakes, a Great Teacher!We all make mistakes during our lifetimes, some big, some small, some we regret, and some we learn from. All mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. Getting an answer wrong on a test, gives us the chance to learn the right answer. Realizing that a wrong decision was made, provides the awareness to make the right choice next time. (more…)

green energy orb small Frequency Holders and Centers of EnergyWe are frequency holders; we are centers of energy. Just take this view for the moment in order to see where it goes: my body forms a base around which energy structures itself. The initial structuring began as the sperm and the egg joined together in my mother’s womb. From the fertilized egg the small human body, the embryo, formed. This happens as cells continually layer themselves together in a certain structure. If I watch this whole gestation through an electron microscope I will see energy structuring itself according to a particular blueprint. (more…)

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Worry, as they say, is a misuse of the imagination. I’m sure this is something we can all attest to. I know my mind has been plagued with a mountain of mole hills and stress recently, all self-inflicted of course, because that’s the only kind there is. We can spend as much time as we want blaming others for our worry and stress, but in reality we’re the ones who bring it upon ourselves by obsessively distorting events. (more…)

wave Take a Step Back and RelaxThis week, I wanted to reflect on a phrase that caught my attention and got me thinking… Here it is:

“If you spend your time trying to figure out what’s “best” for you, your choices will be cautious, your decisions will take forever, and your journey will be launched on a sea of expectations. If you are not careful, you will drown in your expectations.”
-Neale Donald Walsch (Author of Conversations with God)

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thandie newton sadlers fundraising gala 02 small Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myselfToday I want to showcase this wonderful woman. Her TED Talk is deeply insightful and will provide food for contemplation on topics that many of us are pondering in our own lives. Thandie Newton is also a STRONG VOICE FOR WOMEN and very active in the campaign ONE BILLION RISING to stop abuse against women all over the world. Please see the related articles at the bottom for more on her activities as a voice for women.

“Swinging from Hollywood blockbusters to sensitive indie films, Thandie Newton brings thoughtfulness and delicate beauty to her work.” TED.com

 When giving study skills support to teens – be respectful and firm

Teens might listen to understand 300x161 Study skills support for your teen: Mutual respectstill need support to develop useful study skills, but for study skills support to be effective – it is crucial to develop a mutually respectful relationship with them. Previous posts talked about why and how you….

CHECK that your teen fully agrees with the study agreements made together. EXPECT them to honour their agreements and if they don’t, expect them to explain what went wrong and what they will do next time to honour that agreement. CHECK the agreed-upon consequences happen!

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